Chapter 1 Verse 36-37

By killing these sons of Dhritarashtra, what pleasure could be ours, O Janardana? Only sin would accrue to us from killing these felons. Therefore, we should not kill the sons of Dhritarashtra, our relatives; for how can we be happy by killing our own kin, O Madhava (Krishna)?

Core Meaning

Arjuna says that killing his own relatives cannot bring any real joy. He feels that such violence would only bring sin and inner pain. This shows a deep moral conflict: duty to fight versus the natural love for family.

Philosophically, the verse points to the weight of conscience. Actions that harm loved ones leave a lasting inner wound, even if they seem justified by roles or orders. True wisdom asks us to look beyond rules and weigh the human cost.

This teaches that right action is not only about external duty but also about the quality of the heart and the consequences for one’s peace of mind.

Life Application

• Before making hard decisions, pause and imagine the long-term emotional and moral effects on yourself and others.
• When duty conflicts with compassion, look for alternatives that reduce harm—talk, mediate, or choose nonviolent options.
• Cultivate clarity and detachment about outcomes so your choices come from steady values, not from anger or blind obligation.

Reflection Question

Would I choose an action that harms those I love simply because I feel it is expected of me?