Chapter 2 Verse 6

I can hardly tell which would be better, that we should conquer them or that they should conquer us. Even the sons of Dhritarashtra, whom we do not wish to slay, stand facing us.

Core Meaning

Arjuna is confused and heartbroken. He cannot say whether winning or losing would be better, because victory means harming his own relatives and teachers, and defeat means living with that shame. His doubt comes from a clash between duty and love.

Philosophically, the verse shows how attachment and emotion can freeze our judgment. When we are pulled by personal ties, we lose clear sight of our deeper duty and purpose. This confusion is an honest human condition that blocks right action.

The teaching points to the need for inner clarity: to calm the heart, see the true nature of the choice, and act from steady principles rather than from panic, guilt, or desire for personal gain.

Life Application

• When a decision feels unbearable, pause and name the conflicting values—who you are responsible to, and what you care about—before choosing.
• Reduce confusion with simple practices: breathe, reflect, or talk to someone you trust so emotions settle and perspective returns.
• Choose action that balances duty and compassion: do what needs to be done, while minimizing harm and staying honest with your motives.

Reflection Question

What inner conflict is keeping you from making a clear, honest choice?